Imagine for a second, if you would please, that you are a "hot girl". Imagine that from the time you're 16 (probably earlier, but for sake of argument lets agree on 16) you've been hit on daily, consistently, by dudes everywhere: The mall, the restaurant, at school, in the street, at work, by your sibling friends at home...everywhere! Now You are talking THOUSANDS of references in your life by the time you hit 21, where you were validated for what you look like, period! What kind of a person would that create? Would you develop a personality if you didn't have to? Doubt it. We do the best we can with what we have. We all do. I have to believe that, cause I believe in humanity, but hey...maybe I'm just a optimist. Now, to the more important things: What can we gain from these "hot girls"? Practice for one. You wanna learn to hold frame, try going a few rounds against one of these. Now I'm not talking a punching match, or a inter exchange of crude unknown vulgarities, I'm talking wit. Can you word fence with the best of them without loosing control? Cause I'm telling you, the hot girls may seem quiet until you get to that point where they wanna test you, then they're fucking Joe Rogan making a heckler cry.(Go look at some of his shit if you haven't, its hilarious) You're also fighting against millennia of hard wiring in your brain, telling you to bow down to the being in front of you. She has too much value, and its good to numb some of that shit down. Second: Pretty girls can be a TON of fun under the right circumstances. They're very socially adept and know how to handle social pressure. These are the girls you bring to Vegas, or to large parties, they know how to hold their own, they don't need your babysitting. Third: Sex. Enough said. Fourth: They're are great teachers at letting you know that Walt Disney was a FUCKING LIAR! Life is NOT a fairy tail, and people are not the archetypes he told us they were. I'm no prince, and she ain't no princes, and chances are the only thing being dropped and left behind at midnight is some underwear. Is that bad? NO! Life is amazing, wonderful and miraculous as it is, we don't have to make it into something that is not...Hot girls wanna take our money? Don't let them. "They're not very nice and don't validate me" Why do you need some girl to validate you? At the end of the day, we win. We get better with age, and our value is centered around our character not our looks, they peak physically at 23-27...that sucks, and its something they don't like to talk about. But go ahead honey keep drinking like a fish and smoking like a chimney .. what's that? you don't even need to work out cause of genetics? Good for you, I'll see you 5 years and 25 lbs later... I used to be bitter, now I understand. Beauty is SO fucking common, and whoever doesn't agree with that go take a 5 min walk down any major street in LA, its ridiculous. Truth is, we're the ones who condition them to act the way they do, then we resent them for it. We wish them to be be cold to other guys, and warm and fuzzy with us, and they do have different faces (or emotional states if you will) for different people. I'd rather see the freaky sex goddess side, but I know that is a price that few attain, but hey: "Victori Spolia" If any "Hot Girls" are reading this, here's my advice: Read a book, travel, live a healthy lifestyle: eat healthy exercise, cut down or out alcohol and drugs, BE COOL: don't be over jealous, grow emotionally and spiritually (Not necessarily to mean religious) be your own person and have your own life, goals and ambitions. Be a fucking sex freak in the bedroom! guys LOVE that, regardless of what society or anyone else tells you. You are not gonna stay high value forever (I mean social value, obviously not as a human being) and although you might be able to get validation through sex long after you've peaked, you are not gonna be able to get "that guy" for very long, the window is small and once is shut, no amount of surgery opens it back up. I might come off as rude, misogynistic, or plain just crazy, but I promise I'm just trying to help the world out, cause there seems to be too much confusion, misunderstanding and just plain ignorance. *That's it, I'm done!
*In Ben Afflecks voice in "Boiler Room"
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